Holiday Holiday May 31, 2009
Posted by Lauren Cooke in Life, Chatter & Politics.Tags: holiday
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Have a lovely week everyone, and enjoy the scheduled posts! I shall be lounging on a beach or exploring Turkish ruins. Try not to pity me too much!!
Holiday excitement May 30, 2009
Posted by Lauren Cooke in Life, Chatter & Politics.Tags: excitement, holiday, Summer, trip
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All those who don’t want to here this, please avert eyes now.
I am having a completely egocentric moment, focused entirely on the wants of little old me!
This, my friends, is my EEEEEEEEEEE! moment. A complete second of unbridled enthusiasm and excitement about the holiday that literally is just around the corner. By this time tomorrow, I will be in the air (in an aeroplane, obviously). I simply cannot wait, probably to do with my permanent tension building and personally encouraged anticipation. Having spent most of the month surfing the internet for trip ideas, restaurant recommendations, resort reviews, I have completely come to the conclusion that we just need to wait until we are there!
Useful, eh?!
Anyways, today was spent getting the last few things I needed (plasters, mouthwash, little cans of hair mousse just in case) and wishing I was already there! Woop, holiday here it comes!

Ooh, a giveaway May 29, 2009
Posted by Lauren Cooke in Giveaways/Offers, Thrifting, Vintage.Tags: giveaway
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I thought you guys might appreciate this lovely giveaway…
New shooooooooes? May 29, 2009
Posted by Lauren Cooke in Fashion.Tags: bertie, design, Fashion, Shoes, Summer
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A busy day, t’has been! My blogging frequency is about to plummet, as I am preparing to go on Holiday. Everything is nearly packed. I hope to leave two scheduled articles behind, but I also have to write a number of paid blog posts and articles before I go, so I’m not sure how late I’ll be up writing them before I leave on Sunday! To tempt you back, I will be writing a post of just what to pack for a holiday (real experience to draw on here!) and the very best vintage bikini styles on the market – both retro inspired and real vintage. I shall also hopefully get around to a couple of posts giving you links to cool articles and stuff to look at.
Aw, look at how I convince myself that people will mind me going away!
Today (oh glorious, hot, sunny today) was spent with a certain degree of spaced-out-ed-ness. I switched into holiday mood at about 9am, and have been in a blurred and unproductive mood since. Not too unproductive, as I did manage to drift haphazardly into town, and somehow purchase two most beautiful pairs of shoes. For super-cheap sale prices!

First, a stunning yet functional pair with great contrasting sole and chunky heel. I could honestly wear these for a long walk (allbeit not on muddy ground) due to the chunky heel and dependable comfy fit of Bertie shoes. A confession? I have the pearl version of these… I know they would fit!

Second, a pair that honestly may be one of the most beautiful items offootwear I have EVER owned. See, they are so beautiful that I have resorted to capitals! Aside from being surprisingly easy to walk in, these are true, unusually coloured works of art.
Other than buying shoes, I have really experienced the rare joy of British summers. When it is sunny, this can be one of the best countries to be in in the world. Not so much when rainy though! When the sun does dare to creep through the grey clouds and shine, however, we are in for a treat. The bright light shines on shimmering green lives, jewel coloured lakes. The world becomes beautiful!

Links à la Mode | Stylist Melting Pot May 28, 2009
Posted by Lauren Cooke in Fashion, Links á la Mode.Tags: Blogroll, link love, Links á la Mode, things to look at
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Some great links for everyone to read from IFB
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This week’s edition of Links a la Mode includes a variety of style tips, collectively helping us all achieve wardrobe domination. Dirty Laundry gets creative with monochromatic colors, we have a juicy American Apparel shopping tip from The Coveted, Capitola Girl introduces us to new wooden accessories for summer and Vulgar Moon even shows us how to look good in sweatpants. Be sure to check out all the links and feel free to let us know which posts are your favorites!

Links à la Mode : May 28th
- A Typical Atypical: How to wear the fashion of the eclectic makeup style of the the Dresden Dolls
- Agent Dreamer: An interview with Izzy of The Dandy Project
- Capitola Girl: Modern wood designs for summer accessories
- Decline Designs: Defining your personal style, part two – the essentials
- Dirty Laundry: Monochromatic style exploration
- Fashion Grail: A few modifications for one of Sienna Miller’s go-to looks
- Fashion Matchmaker: Fashion at the Cannes Film Festival
- Felicia Sullivan: Score ten amazing summer pieces for under $100
- Pop Your Fashion Pill: 4 DIY necklaces in 30 minutes using safety pins: No scissors, pliers or hooked used!
- Retro Chick: Showcasing Kristinit for this month’s Ethical Design Spotlight
- Style Symmetry: Eyeliah celebrates her 1,000th post with a snazzy reader giveaway
- The Coveted: Who Knew? Over 50% off American Apparel deals on Amazon
- The Demoiselles: Translating boyception – how they perceive our style
- Unfunded: The many ways to play with ShopStyle ranging from shopping to blog content
- Vulgar Moon: How to enjoy the comfort of sweatpants while still looking good
- Style on the street: My outfit and a style advice for the next Fall-Winter
- Yes Please Mademoiselle: Introducing french label ‘The Kooples’.
- Felicia Sullivan: Score ten amazing summer pieces for under $100
- Super Kawaii Mama: Creating an Everyday Glamour Girl Makeup Look – a video tutorial.
- Fun, Flat Broke and Fabulous : 7 Questions to ask yourself before you buy.
- Independent Fashion Bloggers: Essential WordPress Plugins for Fashion Bloggers
NOTE:
Since the launch of the new IFB, we’re currently in a limbo until I get the members imported. If you would like to submit your link for next week’s Links à la Mode, please register first, then post your links HERE. The HTML code for this week will be found in the Links a la Mode group (which you need to register first to access it).
How not to look good in a Bikini May 27, 2009
Posted by Lauren Cooke in Advice, Life, Chatter & Politics, Rants.Tags: bites, holiday, horsefly, insect bites
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Take one Horse. Combine it with a large angry fly. Latch it onto your leg (your tender tender leg) and allow it to bite you three times. When it has developed fully into large bruises, you are ready to go. No looking good in my bikini this holiday!

Happy Bank Holiday! May 25, 2009
Posted by Lauren Cooke in Family, Life, Chatter & Politics.Tags: Family, Fashion, party, ted baker, Thrifting, wedding
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Happy Bank Holiday everyone! Summer is my favourite season not just because of the theoretical potential for sunny days, but because there are so many 4-day weeks! What more could you want?! (Aside from 3-day weeks, obviously!)
Anyway, this weekend was spent down at a family do of Ben’s. I spent the first day in a state of tense panic – he has thirty odd cousins (the majority of whom were al at this party!), whilst I have a grand total of three! I was so far outside my comfort zone that I couldn’t even see its walls in the distance! What an amazing thing to have such a huge family tree – and how strange it must seem to them for someone to just have a little happy nuclear family!
Thankfully they are all a little bit bonkers and very approachable, so soon enough (once a few glasses of pink of white dutch courage had been swallowed) I was chatting way happily. I cant say I remember all their names, but I know a few of them! Impressive eh?
The party was made all the better by a large bouncy castle slide. When I was little these slides started being quite regimented – we paid our 50p and were strictly allowed 3 slides, with no more than a minute at the top. It was lovely to be allowed to clamber up and slide down as many times (and in as many positions) as possible!

Note: the PJ bottoms were to ensure Ben’s family didn’t get to know me too well that day!
Unfortunately for me, clumsiness and stupidity has a habit of following me around. A mere few hours into the night, I locked the car keys in the car. What followed was a lot of mocking (justifiably!!) and a discovery that together, 10 tipsy males can eventually get one pair of car-keys out of a locked car – as long as they have 2 wire coat-hangers. It was hilarious and I do believe I will never be forgotten – or live this one down!

Lots of male bonding!!
Thankfully, the weekend did have a more positive lasting memory – a dress for Richard’s wedding the week after our holiday. I found a Ted Baker dress in a size 8 (a size 8 – haven’t fitted in one of those for years!) that fit like a dream, and cost a huge (not) 6 quid! I’m not putting a picture up, you’ll have to wait to see the full effect (with tan) in a couple of weeks time.
Body Issues May 22, 2009
Posted by Lauren Cooke in Depression, Life, Chatter & Politics.Tags: confidence, Depression, Life, relationships, self belief, Self-esteem, unhappiness
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Today (and for the past few days) I have been having to deal with a massive wave of body self loathing. I’m not my biggest fan at the best of times, so periods like this are especially hard to deal with. It is particularly difficult when I am having to pack skimpy summer outfits and think about bikinis.
My own illogicality is starting to wind Ben up. He spends so much of his time trying to reassure me, as I cry and berate and beat myself up about the imaginary lumps bumps and horrible self I see before me. I wonder if he is close to giving up on me, as silly and self-destructive and miserable as I am. Since we first started going out I have been systematically trying to find reasons we shouldn’t be together, reasons why he shouldn’t like me, ways to push him away and banish him to the realms of good memories – things that didn’t last. Luckily for me he is a stunningly (annoyingly) resilient fellow, battered down by little and stubborn enough to beat even me. Now, however, my inability to see the good things – the holiday, the sun, the fact we are happy and both have good lives – seems to be digging away at him.
I would love to stop, and become the loving and enthusiastic girl that resides underneath this self-hating exterior. Unfortunately, currently, this girl is trapped. I don’t have the foggiest idea how to draw her out, and sense a metaphorical carrot (preferable dipped in chocolate) is needed. I need a healthy dose of unpoisoned reality, a harsh look in the mirror at what I have become.
The facts? I’m reasonable looking (more so once I finally get my hair cut, it’s currently at a kink outwards stage… I can see it marching along. Kink Out! Kink Out! DO NOT LET THE BRUSH DEFEAT YOU!), have a reasonable-to-good body, have friends (although I am very lonely at the moment), have a boyfriend who loves me and a work where I am interested most of the time. I just can’t see it!
Sorry everyone, a miserable post today. But I needed to vent, to put my feelings down on paper and have a whine about it. I just hope that over the weekend I manage to do something about the self-hate that is damaging me, before it gets beyond repair.
*sigh*
Wardrobe Workout – Links à la Mode! May 21, 2009
Posted by Lauren Cooke in Fashion, Links á la Mode.Tags: designers, Fashion, link love, Links á la Mode
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Welcome to another wonderful round up of Links a La Mode! This week we have a wonderful selection of posts to help refine, define, and challenge your wardrobe. From Agent Lover and Style Symmetry, we’ve got the spectrum covered when it comes to hosting and attending Clothing Swaps. Clutch22 shares with us how to negotiate price matching at retailers, and Krislyn Diaries challenges us to try out great summer up-do’s. Decline Designs conceptualizes personal style, while Dirty Laundry helps us refine our self portraits. All in all, our lovely bloggers help you get your wardrobe and personal style fit and in shape for the upcoming Summer season!
Links à la Mode : May 21st
- 39thandbroadway.com – Bringing an End to Fashion Knock-offs– Finally!
- Agent Dreamer – Designers I Heart: The Dark, Majestic Femme
- Agent Lover – How to Throw a Swap Party
- A Typical Atypical - how to follow fashion with a vintage twist
- Awakened Aesthetic – An Instant Classic: Black & White
- Breakfast at Saks – Erika Hendrix – An Urban Romance
- BRICK MY LANE – Mrs Obama and fashion = respect
- Clutch 22 – How to negotiate a price-match including a video experiment at Nordstrom.
- Decline Designs – Defining Your Personal Style, Part One: the Concept
- Dirty Laundry – How to Refine Your Self-Portraiture
- dramatis personae – Developing Your Wardrobe Palette {part 4}
- Felicia Sullivan – Step aside, Kerastase. Phyto is the new reigning queen of haircare
- Hong Kong Fashion Geek – Fashion Geek’s tips to scoring big at warehouse sales.
- Independent Fashion Bloggers – The New IFB is Here!
- Krislyn Diaries – DIY: cool summertime do’s
- Retro Chick – Do’s & Don’ts for the Perfect Wedding Guest Outfit
- Style Symmetry – How to be a Guest at a Clothing Swap Party
- THE COVETED – shu uemura is in the Pink
- The Demoiselles – Fat or Thin… You’re Still Getting Old
- The Recessionista’s Blog – Choosing a Swimsuit: Summer Style Tips
- Work Chic – You still can still be a chic mom to be in the summer heat!


















