More Wish List! November 27, 2009
Posted by Lauren Cooke in Fashion, Present lists....Tags: Clothes, Fashion, leather, origami, style, warehouse
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Sorry about this everyone! I seem to spend most of my life taking about things I wish I owned, which is probably due to the fact that I am currently completely and utterly broke. Having changed jobs from one company who pay in advance to one who pay at the end of the month, it has been about 8 weeks since I was last paid – and it is bloody painful, let me tell ye! I am also owed money by a freelance client, who despite frequent chasing, imploring and practically begging, still seems to be determined to delay paying me as long as possible.
If When they do pay me, however, I may just treat myself. I know no one thinks that my wardrobe is short on anything, but there a few things I am really missing. Smart structured clothes are one of those things, and something I am trying to force myself to spend a little more money on so that they last for far long. I want posh jackets that can go with any outfit, a warm coat and a little black dress – as I currently have none! I probably can’t justify any more shoes, however, so I will just have to survive!
I want two jackets from Warehouse that are completely beyond my price range – but you wouldn’t believe how wonderful they are. How I wish Warehouse would ask me to review them for them in exchange for free goods! *hint hint*
The first is this formal yet elegant grey jacket - a sport on perfect fit as a size 8, believe it or not!!
Next is (I think) this draped black jacket. If this is the one I tried on last night at House of Fraser, then this ties from inside the jacket, making the back perfectly fitted and front beautifully draped. They only seem to have it in leather online, however, very odd!
Which do people prefer? Let me know, and they will be the one I treat myself too (unless I change my mind…)
Wishlist (Dreamy coats) November 25, 2009
Posted by Lauren Cooke in Present lists..., Vintage.Tags: 1960's fashion, adele simpson, costs, Fashion, vintage, winter
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Oh I wish I had a lot of money to spend on something like this soft, smooth utterly beautiful coat! But $230 strikes me as a little out of my price range unfortunately!
A Bad Week For Pets November 22, 2009
Posted by Lauren Cooke in Depression, Family, Life, Chatter & Politics.Tags: animals, death, pets, rats
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This week has been an incredibly bad one for pets. For those of you know don’t read this blog very often, or who perhaps are new, Ben and I own 4 rats, who we love very much. They are the brightest, most intelligent yet clumsy creatures ever known to man, and the are in no way stinky or scary. In fact, they have so many funny little mannerisms and such distinct personalities that how anyone could look at them and be scared rather than amused seems absurd!
Storm was the first of the four, a blue-grey princess with big ears on the side of her head and a lot of brains, She is the matriarch of the group, can kung-fu kick if cornered, and is the one everyone looks at and goes “wow”. She is gorgeous.
Buffy was the next introduction. A little rescue rat-kitten from down in Oxford, there is no pedigree here. instead, we have a loving girl who enjoys snuggling in blankets, isn’t bothered by food, and who is unfortunately allergic to those little mites that every animal (and human!) normally has but doesn’t notice. She itches all the time, poor thing.
Muffin was the third rat. Technically a pedigree ”Siamese rex”, this beauty has curly hair and whiskers, and really big hips. She loves to show her affection by licking you whenever she can (adorable, by the way!) and by curling up with you. She does, however, get very nervous if anyone touches her head, and runs away to hide.
The final and most recent intro to the group was Hermione. A little hermaphrodite, this gorgeous girl had finally stopped trying to rule the roost and taken instead to being absurdly inquisitive and rather adorable.
On Tuesday, we noticed two of our little ratties were ill. Storm, bless her, had developed a large tumour/growth about the size of her leg, and Hermione was looking terribly ill. Her head had swelled dramatically, and she wasn’t energetic enough to move. We rushed them to the vets, where Hermione was declared a little anaemic but fine, and we were told that it would cost from £60-£180 to find out what Storms lump was, and remove it.
Unfortunately, the next day Hermione died. We found her upside down in the corner of the cage, where the other rats had actually buried her. It was horrible. Storm is OK, still perky and energetic, but for now we can’t afford to have anything done. We are just desperately hoping nothing happens to her. On the same day, Ben’s cat from home had to be put down, which was incredibly sad on its own.
It hasn’t been a good week for pets. I feel so sorry for the other rats left without their friend. It is horrible.
Links à la Mode: Food for Thought November 19, 2009
Posted by Lauren Cooke in Blogs, Fashion, Links á la Mode.Tags: blog love, Fashion, link love
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This is my first time editing since I wrote Good Cop/Bad Cop: Participating in Links a la Mode. Thank you all so much for making this my most pleasurable experience in editing yet!
I’m not sure if it’s because American Thanksgiving is a week away, or because the blogosphere is ablaze with Kate Mosses’ unforgettable quote, “Nothing tastes as good as skinny feels,” but either way, I’ve got food on my mind. This week, you brought me the best kind of food–rich, decadent, and 100% calorie-free! That’s right–you delivered highly thoughtful posts on fashion, fashion blogging & communities, and more.
On a personal note, ferOHHHsh has asked that we share her post about her close friend’s near-fatal accident. I believe that the fashion community is one of surprising strength, dignity, caring and compassion, and that it was worth sharing. We’re sending your friend speedy thoughts for a wonderful recovery!
Links à la Mode : November 19th
- A Typical Atypical: – I love vintage, I love handmade… but I don’t love Etsy, as much as I want to.
- Awakened Aesthetic: – Eco-Friendly Stocking Stuffers (Part I)
- Crisis in Denim: – Crisis in Denim: I make gentle fun of a Banana Republic ‘rewards’ card I received in the mail, that seems designed to make me think I accomplished something by shopping at BR and earning ‘rewards’ points, by riffing on the president’s Yes We Can slogan.
- dramatis personae: – the Hat’s Out of the Bag! by Michelle at Wicked Whimsy
- Fashion X K8: – The importance of Fashion Ad Campaigns and analyzing the collective subconcious of fashion consumers. I beg the question, what makes a great Fashion Ad.
- Further Ado: – With many of their paper equivalents going bust, Further Ado finds 5 great online fashion magazines to keep you satisfied.
- Grit and Glamour: – yesterday The Psychology of Lace Lace, in spite of its implied fragility, holds very special power in the sartorial world.
- Idiosyncratic Style – Infatuation List: Five Fall Fashion Favorites
- Independent Fashion Bloggers – Fashion Blogging : The Road Ahead
- kaKofonie Of si(gh)lenS: – Interview with Lauren Jones of mydearthing
- Oranges and Apples: – What drives fashion bloggers? Oranges and Apples in the Scotsman
- Random Fashion Coolness: – Musings on the power-partnerships in the Blogosphere
- Shoe Daydreams: – Collaborations and “inspiration”
- slsvgg fashion: – An interview with Gossip Girl actress LEIGHTON MEESTER, on her style
- Somewhere over the Skyline…: – rugality? Sustainability? The Recession! – Thoughts & Recommendations on Sustainable/Vintage Lifestyles
- Super Kawaii Mama: – Meet the Dr. of Dames and her new book Our Girl’s – Aussie Pin Up’s of the 40’s & 50’s
- THE COVETED: – Benefits of Chilly Days… Coats!
- The Curvy Fashionista – Got the Plus Size Bridal Dress woes? Enter in Cc.Elaine- A studio dedicated to the Curvy.Confident.Chic. Plus Size Bride
- The New Wave: – Underwear as Outerwear: How to wear this spring’s runway trend using vintage pieces.
- The Pixelated Blonde – Fashion: it’s an individual thing – a look at how to be stylish whilst maintaining one’s individuality.
- White Rabbit: – Lookbook.nu vs. Flickr’s Wardrobe Remix – the battle of “What I wore today” sites
- Wicked Whimsy: – Rene Geneva Designs – featuring a local, woman run eco-friendly design house that makes gorgeous clothes to boot!
PLEASE READ IF YOU’D LIKE TO PARTICIPATE:
If you would like to submit your link for next week’s Links à la Mode, please register first, then post your links HERE. The HTML code for this week will be found in the Links a la Mode group will be published later today. ~Jennine
Semi-Daily eBay | Vivienne Westwood White Heels November 17, 2009
Posted by Lauren Cooke in Fashion, Semi-Daily eBay.Tags: daily ebay, Fashion, Semi-Daily eBay, Shoes, vintage, vivienne westwood, White heels
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I am falling more and more in love with Vivienne Westwood every time I read something about her fabulous British Eccentricity, or see a produce of hers that is that little bit different pop up on eBay. I watched a great programme about British country mansions with a fabulous and slightly insane matriarch figure in charge – and she reminded me so brilliantly of Westwood!
These funky and unique heels are for those of you blessed with average size 5 feet, and I am so jealous. I also have no money though, so the fact they wouldn’t fit if probably good for me! These are £19.99 now, with 8 days to go!
Book Giveaway: Winner! November 15, 2009
Posted by Lauren Cooke in Books, Giveaways/Offers.Tags: giveaway, winners
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The time has come to announce the winner of my Sloe Gin and Beeswax giveaway!
And……

The winner is no. 3 - Róisín Muldoon
Congratulations! Let me know your address and I will send it out to you!
Handmade, Vintage and Preloved: My problems with Etsy November 15, 2009
Posted by Lauren Cooke in Advice, Crafting, Inspiration, Life, Chatter & Politics, Rants, Vintage.Tags: Crafting, eBay, etsy, handmade, online shopping, Shopping, vintage fashion
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You have probably gathered just how much I love vintage fashion. The quirky, the wierd, the classic and the wonderful – I am happier in my preloved belongings than in brand new items. It would make sense, therefore, for me to love Etsy. After all, unlike eBay (my usual haunt), you don’t have to compete and bid against other buyers, and the prices are fixed and obvious. Along the same lines, vintage clothes tend to be cheaper on Etsy than they are on online stores, and even often cheaper than they are on eBay.

Etsy Logo
With all these advantages, however, come a number of disadvantages that mean I only buy on Etsy if it really is a case of needs must. These little things make the overall buying experience a bit of a disappointment, and really are simple little things. I simply fail to understand why such a big and successful website won’t put in the effort to make their site that bit more user-friendly.
So why do I have problems with Etsy?
Firstly, they will piss a lot of people off by not having multiple currencies. I don’t mind this too much (I can roughly translate dollars to pounds in my head), but for those who don’t have it programmed into their brains this can be a right hassle. People will find that heading to a site such as XE.com in order to find out the cost is often time-consuming, and can persuade people away from buying at all.

Etsy Local Search - No Keywords!
Next the search local tool. This is great if you don’t have something specific in mind. If you are just browsing, this tool allows you to enter a location, and see the first 100 shops that match those parameters. Of course, a brilliant shop may not have updated recently and will only come much further down the list than that initial 100, and there is no facility to extend the search and see the next bunch. Even worse, you can EITHER search by keyword, or by location, never by both. The closest you can get to this is to see who delivers to the UK, but if you are trying to keep postage costs down and only buy local this is quite a major pain in the ass.
Finally, I have an issue with the feedback method for Etsy. Like its more professional competitor, eBay, people are rated on selling accuracy – but unlike eBay, people don’t have to fill this in. That pressure to be a good and trustworthy seller isnt there, and whilst most people are good guys, there will always be scammers out there.
The thing is, there is still a recession on. We should be encouraging people to buy vintage, and experience the quality and brilliance of a real quality item. Similarly, people are becoming more and more creative, and for the first time in years a real handmade force is out there, crafting and sewing away. eBay doesn’t care about these creatives, concentrating more on the big corporate brands – and Etsy is fatally flawed. There are few outlets for such wonderful talent, and I just wish the website would get off its lazy bottom and sort it out!!
All that said, Etsy is home to the most wonderful and beautiful items. Definitely give it a visit, I am not trying to persuade you away from it! I just think that if they fixed these flaws, their website would be better than ever before, and so many more people would use it!
Do unto others… the debate of Organ Donation November 13, 2009
Posted by Lauren Cooke in Life, Chatter & Politics, Rants.Tags: healthcare, life saving, nhs, organ donation
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(I don’t know why Organ Donation deserves capitals in the title – sorry!)

Organ Donation Card
As people who follow my Twitter feed or know me on Facebook may have noticed, I have been thinking about organ donation this week. They are currently doing a mas push on it using television ads, and it triggered me to formally sign up in more of a way than just ticking the box for my cards and hoping someone notices. I also got Ben to sign up, and chatted to my family about the issue.
Organ donation is something I have always wanted to do. As long as there is something of me left to bury under a Horse Chestnut tree when I have died, I don’t mind where the other bits go. If they can help someone, all the better. For some unknown reason I have always had an issue with my eyes being used. Somehow, above anything else, that creeped me out. When signing up last night, however, I bit the bullet and hit the “take it all!!!” button – which, I would like to add, is not worded like that at all!
Whilst organ donation seems an automatic thing to me, other people never make an outright decision. For a majority of people, they never say yes, or no, to the prospect. So many feel don’t feel passionately about it either way, and as such they get missed, any opinions that they have may not expressed aren’t known if they do die, and plenty of organs go wasted based on the families wishes, and not the wishes of the actual person who really matters, the person whose body it is.
The ting is, I can understand people not wanting to donate organs. I don’t necessarily agree, but I know it is their right and someone messing with their body is an idea that disturbs some people. I am completely empathise with the squeamish side of it, and that as a reason for people choosing not to donate. And where this is the case, I feel people should be able to choose to opt out, whether for religion, or personal opinion, or whatever reason they may darn well choose.
That is where I stand on the argument - I believe everyone should automatically be put on the register, and if they care enough they can choose not be on it, with no problem at all. I simply don’t see why this isn’t the case?!
Can someone shed light on why we have to opt in rather than opt in? Do proactive organs work better?!
By the way, if you want to sign up for the UK register, simply go here.













A dose of the Nastys November 18, 2009
Posted by Lauren Cooke in Blogs, Life, Chatter & Politics, Social Media.Tags: bitchiness, blog, comments, insults
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I have been quite lucky so far. The blogging and social networking world I have inhabited has been full of wonderful, inspiring people – old friends, new friends, and people I can’t help but read day after day. For some reason, however, I have had my first dose of nastiness in three (yes, three!!) nasty icky comments from three “different” people, all today! Thankfully everyone I know if so nice that it hasn’t got to me, and I thought I would share the absurd spelling, grammar and downright bitchiness with you all. So we can laugh at it, if you wish to!!
Oh – and it is worth noting how Gangsta speak is now the most popular for of insult. Isn’t that wonderful?! And Gangsta speak now encompasses archaic langauge, isn’t that odd?
Comment 1 waxed lyrical as such…
“I do not like your style… Do you ever feel embarrased looking back at your pictures? .. Because I would be .. REALLLY EMBARASSED YE DIG?”
Comment 2 was a little less subtle…
“You are not nice!”
It was good to have this pointed out, because for a while I had got it into my head that maybe (wait for it…) I kind of WAS nice. Gosh, I am please that was cleared up! Aren’t you? Imagine, reading along thinking I was all peachy, when beneath the surface lurked a not so nice hidden me?!
Finally, the trio was neatly topped off with…
“kAAAY LISTEN U LAYDIE YUR so wierd like what kindao fashion do you have im EFOSA, and like kaay like what are you doing.?\ yur so ugly and like the clothes yu wear thyre ugly too like kaaay leave me and my scocial buddies alone D:”
Aren’t they just nasty?!